How to Create More Time :Simplify Life pt 1
by Ralph Jean-Paul
Time is what prevents everything from happening at once. -John Archibald Wheeler
Life is becoming more complex. We have jobs, finances,
school work, blogs, businesses, families, and other things we are responsible
for. We also have smartphones, Google Calendar, and notebooks to help us save
time. Although technology is making our lives easier, we still have less
time than we did before. Is this the way life is supposed to be? The
obvious answer is 'no'. So why do so many of us find ourselves in this
situation?
Lately, I've found myself living a much busier lifestyle than I could have
imagined at the beginning of this year. At this point in my year, I
realize that I have to simplify my life.
This is the first post in a series about simplifying life.
You may be like me when you think to yourself "I need more time for
me". You may have also promised that you would "someday"
reduce your workload and responsibility so that you can make time for the truly
important things.
Time is what we want most, but... what we use worst. -William Penn
But, someday never arrives and you see the level of
tasks and responsibilities increase and your free time decrease. I've
been in that situation many times. This is when it is time to simplify
life.
My
So Called Life
I have been able to handle my busy schedule up until about a month ago. Things
ran smoothly during the beginning of the year and I loved the busyness of my
day. I have a Presidential role in a Toastmasters International club, I
lead a committee for my employer, I have several speaking engagements this
year, as well as writing, mentoring and managing duties.
I was doing a great job of juggling and making it look easy
until I caught a major cold 4 weeks ago. It started with a tickle in my
throat. I had a sense that it was coming so I increased my intake of
vitamin C, but it was too late.
The cold kept me out of commission for about 2 days. I missed half day
at work and a few projects didn't get finished. When I felt better, I
decided to get right back to work. I was amazed to find how far behind I
fell after missing just 2 days.
The following week I averaged about 3 hours of sleep as I consistently
worked to
catch up. No matter how much I worked it felt like I wasn't
getting anywhere.
I didn't realize until that week that the difference
between a completely successful
week and a total disaster was two days.
My margin of error was razor thin. It’s like living a
life with no savings in the bank. I felt as though I had no cushion of
time that I could fall back on if I couldn't operate. Even worse, what if
I wanted a day to just do nothing or spend a few days with friends and family?
How far back would that put me?
What are you going to do with the time?
When we get too busy we often think of what we could be doing instead of what
we are currently doing. The problem is when the time does become available; we
seem to fill it with something else. So in the end, you usually end up
with the same amount of time but with something different to fill it.
This is true in all parts of life.Let’s say that your standard of living is
based on a $30,000 salary.You have a
DVD player, a regular cell phone, and a 1 bedroom 1 bath apartment and have a
low margin of extra money for savings.If your salary is raised to $35,000, you seemingly have an extra $5,000
per year for savings which would put you in a good financial spot; but only if
you live as if you still made $30,000.
What tends to happen instead is that we increase our
standard of living right along with our increase of income.Instead of the DVD player, we switch to Blue
Ray.The cell phone turns into a
Blackberry or iPhone and we upgrade to a 2/2.So ultimately, we have the same margin of extra money.
The same is true with our time.We can create more time but then turn around
and allow it to be filled with seeming important things.Since time is a currency that is being constantly
spent, it is wise to know how you are going to spend it.I’ve decided to focus on the absolutely
important things in my life that I have been missing out on with the extra time
I am creating.
When I began to realize how much time I've been spending on
things I'm responsible for, I began thinking about the things that I'm missing
out on. Are you missing out on any of
these things also?
Personal Development-
You may want to use the time you save to better yourself in a specific
way. I love to learn, apply and share
knowledge and experiences. This site is an avenue for me to do
that. However, when I am running around trying to get things done, I can
sometimes fall behind on my own personal development.
Recreation- There
was a number of races and leagues that I planned on participating in but never
had the time to train for.I look
forward to participating in some local 5 and 10k races.I’m also considering joining a basketball
league.
Volunteering-I
enjoy volunteering for Habitat for Humanity which is a program that helps build
houses for families who otherwise would not be able to afford a home.It is a great program and I’m looking forward
to volunteering with them again.
Rediscover lost loves-l
use to have a sketch book that I would use to sketch in when I felt inspired.All hobbies that are just for my enjoyment
seem to have disappeared this year.
Restore relationships-I
was a ghost during my busiest time. It was hard to get a hold of me unless
it was about business or my other projects. With my new found time I plan
on reconnecting with my friends and building new relationships.
Travel-I would
like to visit some new places within and outside the US that I haven't been. I would like to go somewhere I can enjoy the
attractions of a big city, but also where I can visit a natural setting. Have
any suggestions?
Before you make a plan to create more time, make sure you
know how that time will be spent.
Creating Time
Audit your time-You would
be surprised at how much time it takes to check email, Facebook, Twitter, and
everything else we have that keeps us connected.Many of the daily activities that we have
take up much more time than we think they do.
In 2007, it was reported that Australian businesses lost
between 4-6 billion dollars in time because employees were on Facebook. In 2005
over 60% of Americans spent 1-3 hours daily on email.The majority of people, however, perceive
that they are spending a lot less time than they actually are.
To really see where your time is going, audit yourself for a
week.You may come to find out that you
have many different things that are taking way too much of your time.Try to be as exact as possible.When I first did this I used the stopwatch on
my iPod.Break them down by category or
responsibility and you will most likely find at least one big time consumer
that you didn’t expect.
Eliminate and Postponing–Once
you’ve figured out which of the things you do daily are taking up the majority
of your time, you can begin to eliminate.Make a list of the things that are the biggest time takers then identify
why the item takes as long as it does.Commit to eliminating one of the things on
your list.The item you choose
should be a big time absorber with the least return on your time.
For example, if you spend 50 minutes combined on Facebook
per day that would be about 6 hours per week.In those 6 hours, how much time was spent on email, posting photos,
checking to see what your ex is up to etc?Once you’ve seen the time you’ve spent, ask how it contributed to the
important goals of your day.If it doesn’t
contribute much or anything at all, eliminate it for a week.
...how much time was spent on email, posting photos,
checking to see what your ex is up to etc?
If you just can’t live without Facebook, postpone
using it until the end of your day or week.Plan to do that thing that is taking up your time 30 minutes before you
go to bed each day, or to the end of your week.With less time left in you day or week, you will be less likely to spend
as much time as you usually would.
Get Good Help-I am the
Chairman of a Banquet that is coming up this week.There 3 different committees that I am
responsible for.As I was taking a break
from writing this post, I checked my voicemail and there was a message from the
leader of one of the committees.She
informed me that everything is going great and will be ready for the banquet
this week.
Delegation only works when the people you are delegating to
are capable enough to handle the tasks.Begin to surround yourself with good decision makers. There are two benefits
to having good decision makers around you.First, you don’t have to micromanage them and second, you will rarely be
interrupted to answer a question that they could have easily answered
themselves.
Organize yourself-Organization
is one of the best ways to save time.When you have your day lined up for you and everything is in place,
things tend to run more smoothly.There
are many systems that help you organize but I recommend the David Allen method
as well as Franklin Covey. Use as many tools and calendars as you need to get
yourself organized.I have a wall calendar,
Blackberry organizer, and Google calendar in my current rotation.
Wake up early-I became an early riser many years
ago when my job required it and I had an hour commute. For most of my life if I didn’t have to get
up early for something, I wouldn’t. But
ever since I started waking up early, I cannot imagine going back to sleeping
in.
Even if a person wakes up 30 minutes earlier, there is a possibility
to get more done.With the thirty
minutes, someone can exercise, check email, or get a head start on a time
consuming task that they have to do later in the day.Since it is early, there is little chance
that there will be any distractions that make it harder for you to complete your
task. I’m usually up at 5am and use the first half of my mornings to pray.I find that when I pray and meditate early,
my mind is clearer and I can attack a task better.
Limit TV and Surfing-We
spend a lot of time on TV and online.The average household watches about 4.5 hours of TV per day.The number of videos produces online has
jumped 34% to over 12.7 billion videos but the number of people watching the
videos has only increased about 6%.Still many people report that they do not watch much TV and do not spend
a lot of time online.
I limited my TV
watching from about 5 hours per day to about 5 hours per week many years
ago.I can say that there are many
advantages to turning off the TV.It is
a hard habit to break, but crucial if you want to create more time.
The way to limit TV watching is to plan your viewing.Look over the weekly TV schedule and choose a
program you would like to watch. Choose programs that add up to an hour per
day.If you watched an average of 28
hours per week, it would bring that number down to 7 which would give you an
extra 21 hours this week!The same
technique can be used with online surfing.When scheduling your day, set aside some time to go on online to surf
your favorite sites.When I began
limiting my watching, I chose a few select sporting events that I wanted to
watch.Total, I created about 26 extra
hours in my week.